Verified couples (target)
47,283
Illustrative
PreviewThe figures and safeguards below describe the trust model we are building. The numbers shown are illustrative targets, not live counts, and the moderation pipeline goes live at launch. When the platform opens, these update from real verification data.
The trust dashboard
Verification, not vibes.
At launch, this page publishes what no other platform in this category will. Here is the standard we are holding ourselves to.
Bot rate (target)
0.4%
Industry: 12-30%
Bots removed (target)
1,142
AI + human review
Median response time
2.1h
Member-to-member
Days to verification
1.8
Signup to REAL
Active metros (target)
38
US only at launch
If a platform won't show you their bot rate, ask yourself why.
the Lifestyle Desires principle
Three layers, no shortcuts.
01
AI pre-screen on every photo and message
At launch, every upload passes through automated nudity and safety screening, with hash-matching against known CSAM databases. Coercion, age-mismatch, and scam patterns are flagged before content goes live.
02
Human moderation queue with a 24-hour SLA
Real people review every flagged item, severity-tiered. Critical incidents (minors, threats, trafficking signals) escalate immediately and are reported to the NCMEC CyberTipline as required by federal law.
03
Member-to-member trust signals
Post-meet sentiment stays private to you, and feeds an aggregate trust score that shapes visibility, verification renewal cadence, and event eligibility.