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The essentials on verification, photos, membership, and staying in control. If you need more, we are one message away.

How does verification work?+

Members move through three levels. Unverified is a brand new account with limited access. Member Verified means you have confirmed your identity through our checks. REAL Verified is the highest level, reserved for members who have completed our full photo and identity verification so others know you are exactly who you say you are.

Higher verification unlocks more of the community and signals more trust to the people you connect with.

What are the four photo albums and who can see them?+

Every member has four albums, each with its own access rule so you control exactly how much you share.

  • Photos. Your general album, shown more openly.
  • REAL. Reserved for REAL Verified members, an extra layer of trust.
  • Privates. Gated. You grant access one member at a time.
  • Faces. Your identifying photos, held back until you choose to reveal them.

Gated albums also carry a screenshot deterrent and a faint watermark. You can review these controls under your photo privacy settings.

How does membership and billing work?+

At launch, couples membership is planned at 9.95 per month. Gift memberships and referrals will let you bring in the people you trust and share access with partners you meet in the community.

Billing goes live when the platform launches. Until then you can explore and set up your profile without a charge.

How do I control who sees my photos?+

Access is always yours to set. You decide which members can open your Privates and Faces albums, and you can grant or revoke that access at any time.

Your photo privacy settings also let you keep faces off your main photos and remove identifying marks, so you never share more than you intend.

How do I report a member or content?+

Every profile, photo, and message has a report option. Flagged items go to a human moderation queue with a review turnaround measured in hours. Anything involving safety is escalated immediately. When in doubt, report it. We would rather review it than miss it.

How do I contact support?+

Reach us any time through our contact page, or use the feedback button in the corner of any page. We typically reply within one business day.